What is the key to an “uncommon” marriage? Tony and Lauren Dungy answer this question.
Tony: Lauren and I have been married over 30 years now. I think our faith has been a big part of our marriage. To me, faith is so important in marriage because everything isn’t going to to perfectly and you do have to come together as two people becoming one partnership. You have to trust in the Lord and you have to put the Lord first, in the center of a relationship, to make it work. That’s easier said than done. When you tell other people about it or you counsel other people, it’s easy to say, “Here’s where you’ve got to have faith. Just believe and go forward.” But when it is happening to you and things are coming up in your marriage, to really concentrate on the Lord and say, “I know he’s in the middle of this.” That becomes difficult at times, but it’s what you have to do.
Lauren: We’ve found that you have to really rely on your Christian principles and the biblical principles that you know and believe in, because you have to expect there will be conflict, there will be challenges in your life. That’s going to happen in any marriage, but the world has a way of dealing with the challenges and problems, or you can follow God’s ways, and God’s ways are always going to keep you united. Even in your conflicts and challenges, there should be joy in the midst.
Tony: We really do feel like that has been really the basis for how we have stayed together and grown, is that we have listened to the Lord and listened to the Bible, as opposed to listening to worldly wisdom or what our society says about marriage. We’ve tried to rely on those biblical principles and let them guide us and not what society says.
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